A Deeper Dive into Food Sensitivities

Given my personal experience, I was very interested in researching NCGS. Around the world, it seems as though the amount of people getting diagnosed with Celiac Disease or NCGS is increasing quickly. About 10 years ago, there were no gluten free options on menus or many brands of gluten free products. Not many people knew someone with a gluten sensitivity or allergy. Nowadays, there are at least 5 different brands of gluten free bread on shelves, and some stores even have entire isles dedicated to gluten free products. However, this rise in “popularity” has many different components. Research suggests that the amount of people with Celiac Disease has not increased, but instead its diagnosis. Celiac Disease is extremely underdiagnosed all around the world due to the similarity of its symptoms to other conditions such as IBS and Crohn’s Disease. As for gluten sensitivities, the underdiagnosis is immeasurable. Most people in the health care and scientific communities did not acknowledge non celiac gluten sensitivity’s existence until a double blind study and psychological study was conducted by researchers in 2012. Additionally, a gluten free diet was adopted by the “fad diet” community and gave the topic a stigma that people with sensitivities like myself are still trying to shake. 

Now, the cause of gluten sensitivities is still up for debate. The only agreement of the scientific community on the topic is the mere existence of gluten sensitivities as no one can agree on much else. The plausible theories of its cause seem to be a group of proteins in wheat, rye, and barley called amylase trypsin inhibitors, FODMAPs, or some other unknown biological markers. Research began by comparing non-celiac patients to patients with the disease and measuring their responses. It is known that Celiac is caused by a genetic mutation of a gene, however the inheritance pattern is still unknown. Many people believed that a gluten sensitivity would work in the same manner, however no evidence of that has been concretely defined. In terms of the proteins, people with gluten sensitivities have significantly higher levels of a certain class of antibodies against gluten that suggest a short-lived, systemic immune response. These antibodies suggest that the barrier of the intestines might be defective, allowing partially digested gluten to get out of the gut and interact with immune cells in the blood. Elevated levels of two proteins that indicate an inflammatory response to bacteria were identified, which eventually subsided after six months on a gluten free diet. On the other hand, FODMAPs are compounds that ferment in the gut to cause symptoms of irritable bowel syndrome, such as abdominal pain, bloating, and gas. These compounds are found in many foods like onions, garlic, legumes, milk, yogurt, apples, cherries, and mangoes and wheat. Researchers are unsure of the exact working of both of these systems, and which one causes gluten sensitivities, but at least we are learning something. 

Beyond the workings within the body, many researchers are looking into wheat itself. Many people fear that modern wheat varieties contain more immunoreactive proteins than in the past and that this is the cause of the increased incidence of wheat-related disorders, according to Darina Pronin from the Leibniz-Institute for Food Systems Biology. In order to test this, the researchers selected five leading wheat varieties for each decade of the 120 years examined. In order to generate comparable samples, they cultivated the different varieties in 2015, 2016 and 2017 under the same geographical and climatic conditions. Analyses by the team of scientists showed that, overall, modern wheat varieties contain slightly less protein than old ones. In contrast, the gluten content has remained constant over the last 120 years, although the composition of the gluten has changed slightly. While the proportion of critically viewed gliadins fell by around 18 percent, the proportion of glutenins rose by around 25 percent. In addition, the researchers observed that higher precipitation in the year of the harvest was accompanied by a higher gluten content in the samples. In conclusion, they did not find any dramatic increase in various irritating components, however the changes are still present. 

The wheat debate continues with the comparison of US to European wheat. Many people with gluten sensitivities report the ability to eat wheat freely when traveling in Europe. This has sparked much investigation into the differences between the two. In comparison, wheat grown in the US and wheat grown in Europe of the same class or type have about the same gluten content. Studies have revealed that the gluten content does not change based on growing conditions, and is the same within each variety. However, the red wheat grown majorly in the US does have a higher gluten content compared to other classes of wheat which are more commonly grown in Europe. So, it appears that the factor is not where the wheat is grown per say, but the class of wheat itself. However, this debate on regions is further complicated with the added factor of pesticides. Though heavily debated, some experts propose that glyphosate — AKA Roundup — plays a role in the development of celiac disease and NCGS. A 2020 study published in Frontiers in Microbiology suggests that exposure to glyphosate alone or through food treated with the herbicide promotes gut dysbiosis by reducing good gut bacteria and increasing the number of opportunistic pathogens. This glyphosate-induced dysbiosis may be linked to inflammation, reflux disease, obesity, and colon cancer. Interestingly, glyphosate and many other chemicals of the same nature are prohibited from use in many European countries. Despite the focus on wheat, high glyphosate residues were also found on other crops such as corn and legumes. However, wheat products contain higher residues post-processing and comprise a significant portion of the average North American's dietary glyphosate exposure. The glyphosate problem continues to worsen as some farms who do not use the pesticide have now found it has contaminated their water and therefore their crops. Although no studies have found a direct link between Celiac disease or NCGS and glyphosate, it is a factor that cannot be dismissed completely. 

In conjunction with the increase in gluten sensitivities, there has been a response from the government here in the US and in countries around the world. Here in the US, “If you or one of your dependents has celiac disease and you itemize your deductions, the extra costs due to gluten-free dietary restrictions may be taken as a medical expense.” In Argentina, the “National Program for the Detection and Control of Celiac Disease” promotes awareness and knowledge regarding celiac disease, has implemented an impressive array of labeling restrictions, and created a national logo for all certified-GF packaged foods. For residents, Argentinian health care providers must cover the cost of alternative flours and gluten-free mixes. In Australia and New Zealand, they have the toughest labeling laws in the world. Set by the Australia New Zealand Food Standards Code, they apply to all food sold or prepared for sale, including imported food.


The Australia New Zealand Food Standards Code requires the following: Foods labeled as “gluten free” must not contain any detectable gluten; and no oats or their products; or cereals containing gluten that have used malt or their products. Ingredients derived from gluten containing grains must be declared on the food label, however small the amount. Foods labeled as “low gluten” must contain less than 200 parts per million of gluten. In Canada, labeling restrictions are placed on all packaged gluten-free foods. All foods considered certified gluten-free by Health Canada must contain under 20 parts per million of gluten.  Any intentionally added gluten-containing ingredient must be listed on a product. In addition, Canadian residents receive tax deductions for the extra cost of gluten free foods versus their non-gluten free counterparts. Based on the enhanced labeling regulations for allergens and gluten sources, any intentionally added gluten sources, even at low levels (e.g. wheat flour as a component in a seasoning mixture which makes up a small proportion of the final food), must be declared either in the list or ingredients or in a “Contains” statement. This limitation is extremely rare, as here in the US, it can be simply listed as “spices” with no additional disclosure. In Ireland, Irish citizens may claim tax deductions for the extra cost of gluten free foods versus their non-gluten free counterparts. In Italy, it is a myth that routine screening is performed. However, children and adults are tested for celiac disease when they have specific symptoms. Diagnosed celiacs receive vouchers to buy specifically produced gluten free foods, up to 140 euros per month. The Italian Celiac Association and government have done an excellent job educating restaurants on how to deal with celiac disease. There are even gluten-free meals in schools, hospitals, and all other public eating establishments. Finally, Over 90% of British celiac patients receive gluten-free food as part of their prescription for the gluten-free diet. Essentially these patients receive gluten free food and mixes at a heavily discounted price (the cost of the prescription). 

I hope my personal experience and research have shed some light on the daunting and complex topic of food sensitivities. There is still a lot to be learned and researched in both the medical and scientific space, something I hope to contribute to in my professional career. Additionally, as seen above, the US does have quite a ways to come in terms of public policy and labeling laws to help protect and inform people about their food products. This is a topic that I am personally very passionate about as it is incredibly difficult to find full ingredients lists for items at fast food restaurants, online products, and even products in store. This poses a great inconvenience for me as I have to spend a lot of time trying to figure out if I can eat the product, and whether it is worth the risk.

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The Origin of Tiramisu

 
 

Tiramisu, an authentic Italian treat enjoyed by many, holds a rich history that spans centuries. As part Italian myself (50%), I wanted to look into the origin of tiramisu. The word “tiramisu” literally means “pick me up” and it comes from the Treviso dialect, “Tiremesu”, and later became Tiramisù in the 20th century. Evidence has suggested that Tiramisù originated in the early 1800s in Treviso – a municipality in the Veneto region of northern Italy. Around this time, it is said that the dessert may have been created inside the brothels of Treviso by a mistress who used it to stay awake to care for her newborn. Additionally, the story continues that she shared the recipe with a pastry chef, Robert Linguanotto, who helped perfect the tiramisu in the mid-to-late 1800s, using the traditional ingredients of egg yolks, sugar, mascarpone, cocoa powder, coffee, finger biscuits, and coffee liquor. After Robert Linguanotto refined the tiramisu recipe, it gained popularity not just in Treviso but also in the surrounding regions, becoming a staple in Italian cuisine. However, tiramisu gained popularity in the US gradually throughout the 20th century as Italian immigrants brought recipes with them to the United States, including beloved desserts like tiramisu, that many love today.






The History of Ice Cream

 
 

Ice cream, a treat enjoyed by many, holds a rich history that spans centuries. As an ice cream fanatic and someone who works at an ice cream store, let's take a deep dive into that history. 

There are various theories about the origins of ice cream. Some people believe that Marco Polo brought a recipe resembling sherbet to Italy, while others credit the Italian Catherine de Medici for introducing France to frozen desserts in 1553 after becoming the wife of Henry II of France. Additionally, some even believe Thomas Jefferson brought ice cream to America. Despite this claim being proven false, there is no doubt that he contributed to ice cream’s popularity as he served it at the President’s House in Washington. 

Evidence traces ice cream back to ancient China during the Tang period (A.D. 618-907). Here, “ice cream” was made by heating buffalo, cows’, and goats’ milk and fermenting the milk. Before mixing it with flour for thickening, camphor for flavor, and refrigerate it before being served. As many may know through their middle school science classes, their ice cream base can be put into salt and ice. Through this process, the ice cream will cool and freeze since the salt lowers the ice’s freezing. Furthermore, the Greek and Roman elites enjoyed chilled beverages like chilled fruit juices and even sorbets. In Islamic cultures, particularly in Persia and India, kulfi is a popular frozen treat made with condensed milk and flavors like saffron, cardamom, and pistachios. 

Ice cream gained popularity in America during the 18th and 19th centuries. In 1744, the first official account of ice cream in the New World was recorded. By the 1800s, technological innovations such as insulated ice houses and steam power revolutionized ice cream production. Furthermore, a Baltimore milk dealer named Jacob Fussell pioneered its mass production, leading to the emergence of ice cream as a thriving industry. Additionally, cars changed the industry. 

In 1874, American soda fountain shops emerged with the invention of the ice cream soda, which is a mix of ice cream, milk, soda, and syrup. Then, the traditional ice cream “sundae” was invented. 

During World War II, military branches served ice cream to their troops. When the war ended, and dairy product rationing was lifted, America celebrated its victory with ice cream, consuming over 20 quarts of ice cream per person in 1946.

Now, ice cream shops are popular gathering places for families and friends. From basic flavors like chocolate, vanilla, and strawberry to cookie dough and mint chocolate chip there are options for everyone. 

Finally, with the solar eclipse yesterday, I hope that everyone had the opportunity to see it with their cool eclipse glasses. Now, people can even enjoy ice cream in space! Freeze-dried ice cream is dry and more brittle with little to no liquid in it. 

To wrap up the history of ice cream, I will leave you all with a fun fact: Opened in 1686, La Procope is the oldest café in Paris – the first place where ice cream was served in Paris. So, the next time you are taking a bite of ice cream, I encourage you to think about how it became the delicious treat you love today.

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The Psychology Behind Baking and Cooking

For many, handmade food has brought love, support, and community during whatever situation someone is in.  Me, my love for the culinary arts all began when my twin sister and I wore matching princess pajamas, taking turns licking the dough-filled bowl. Baking became my oasis, providing comfort in the precision of each recipe. If I follow the directions, I will yield perfect results. Now, I know that I am not the only person who took up baking bread during quarantine. I even created a TikTok account, documenting food that I made during the pandemic. I can still recall the excitement my sister and I felt when our mac and cheese video got ten thousand views! So, what is the psychology behind baking and cooking? Why do people cook and bake?  

Baking and cooking is a way for them to relieve stress. In times of uncertainty, many spend time in the kitchen to bring them back to their childhood, and to remind them of the time they spent cooking in the kitchen with their parents. In this way, baking gives them a feeling of nostalgia for them. Even more, the act of baking often triggers various parts of our brain, including the amygdala (the processing center for emotions) and the hippocampus (which forms memories) which ultimately help us reduce stress and anxiety.

Ultimately, sometimes there are no words, and only food can communicate what you’re trying to say. The very act of giving is present when cooking or baking. You can get lost in the cloud of flour that erupts from the mixer and be engrossed in the repetitive motions of measuring, mixing, and whisking that are calming and centering. So, next time you are in the kitchen, remind yourself of why you like to bake and remember “Stressed is desserts spelled backward.”

Food Sensitivities - My Experience

Personal Experience: Madi Davis

 
 

Hi! My name is Madi Davis, I am a senior at Norwell High School, and one of Chef Abby’s interns this spring! Next year, I will be going to Clemson University to study Human Nutrition and Dietetics. Today, I will be writing about life with food sensitivities!

Personally, I have 13 food sensitivities that vary in their severities and the responses they cause in my body. Of the 13, there are some that I eliminate completely such as gluten, dairy, high fructose corn syrup, stevia, and coffee. These foods all cause immediate and severe effects ranging from gastrointestinal issues to an immune response. For other foods such as bell pepper and pineapple, I just limit my consumption of them. 

My journey into the discovery of my food sensitivities has been one of a lifetime and not a clear cut path by any means. I learned early on in my life (around the age of 8) that high fructose corn syrup and my body do not get along. I remember having stomach issues after drinking juice boxes, eating ketchup, or having an occasional soda. I eventually discovered that the tie between all these foods was this one artificial sweetener. At the time, high fructose corn syrup was being used in everything from candy to condiments as it was a cheap alternative to sugar. Luckily, since then, many brands have moved away from the ingredient given its aftertaste and less than ideal health effects, but I still never trust the ketchup at a restaurant. 

The rest of my food sensitivities did not become apparent in my life until the summer of 2020. With the rest of the world, I was home from school during quarantine, and started noticing more closely the intensity and frequency of my many health issues. I had constant stomach aches, pain, bloating, and frequent trips to the bathroom. I had excruciating pain in my feet, an ache in every joint, low energy, and an inescapable exhaustion. Needless to say, my health was very different from that of the average 14 year old. 

At this point, I began to seek help. I started with my pediatrician, who sent me to an allergist, who sent me to an orthopedist, who gave me no answers. I did bloodwork for every food allergy available and it all came back negative. I was tested for celiac, and again tested negative. I was losing hope at this point, and was starting to believe that it really was all in my head as people had been telling me. Then, in an off-handed conversation with my chiropractor, she told me that her mother-in-law was gluten free in order to help her arthritis. I was really in denial that my symptoms had anything to do with food as I am a “live to eat” or “foody” type of person who loves to cook and try new things. At this point, my dad had been diagnosed with celiac disease and I had seen the sad excuse for bread that he now had to eat as part of a gluten free diet. Eventually, my mom convinced me to try an elimination diet, just to see if it helped. 

For the next two weeks, I cut out gluten and dairy completely, and I started to see a difference. The pain in my feet had almost disappeared, my stomach was in a much better state, and had a feeling of energy and better overall health. Given the impact of cutting out just two categories of food on my health, I decided to take an at home food sensitivity test to reveal if I had any more. When I received the results, it revealed that I had numerous other “low severity” sensitivities as the company calls them. I did not have any extreme adverse reactions to any of these foods, but I began to notice that symptoms did appear if I ate any of these foods in excess (for example a stomach ache if I eat chicken four plus times in the same week). These are what I call my easy sensitivities as they don’t require much monitoring or take too much of my time. 

It has now been about three years since that summer and I have adjusted to my new lifestyle. At first it seemed impossible, and rightfully so. My diet was completely changed in a matter of a few weeks and I was thrown into a world that I knew virtually nothing about. My number one piece of advice for people going through a dramatic diet change is to try everything. At first, I thought that every brand of gluten free bread would taste like cardboard, but thankfully that is not the truth. Although it seems daunting, the weird health food snack you found on a random isle may become your new favorite food. Some brands that I love are GreenLite bread, Schar for crackers, Trader Joes for pizza dough, dips, and many other items, and Over Easy for protein bars. 

Another difficult part of going gluten and dairy free is going out to eat at restaurants. I have found the app “Find Me Gluten Free” is extremely helpful with reviews, safety ratings, and a dairy free filter for finding all types of restaurants. Nearby, 110 Grill is amazing as they have an entire gluten free menu, as does Burtons. Twist Cafe is a bit far but it is completely gluten free and mostly dairy free and has the best pancakes and baked goods by far!

Meet The 2024 Interns!

 

Hi! My name is Ava Gravina and I am a senior at Norwell High School. Next year, I will be going to William & Mary!

A fun fact about me is that I am a twin; however, we cannot read each other’s minds, much to our disappointment! Furthermore, I strive to keep a busy and active lifestyle whether I am inside or outside of school. In school, I am an active participant in the National Honor Society, the school newspaper, and Peer Education where I helped acclimate a group of freshmen to high school. I also run cross-country and am captain of the swim team. Beyond academics and sports, I work at an ice cream shop and babysit. I also love to read, bake, travel, and workout in my free time! If I could try out a job, I would love to be a private chef. My favorite book is Better Than the Movies by Lynn Painter and my favorite food is chicken parmesan. Currently, I am very excited to be doing an internship with Chef Abby! Every day brings newfound skills and lessons learned in the kitchen, fueling my passion for the culinary arts.

 

Hi! My name is Madi Davis, I'm a senior at Norwell High School, and one of Chef Abby’s interns for this spring! Next year, I’m heading off to Clemson University to study Nutrition on the Dietetics path.

I really wanted to do this internship because cooking is a passion of mine and I wanted hands-on experience in the culinary world to learn more about how it is connected to nutrition. Some of my favorite things to cook are Mediterranean chicken bowls, pizza, and lemon herb orzo. A fun fact about me is that I’m originally from North Carolina and moved here to Norwell in 5th grade! In the future, I want to learn more about food sensitivities and allergies (as I have 13!) and hope to help others on their journey to eating specifically for their health situation. I am extremely excited to learn as much as I can on this internship, and will be posting more about my personal journey with food and some research findings soon!

Zoom Classes, College Care Packages, Pies, Private Chef Meals, Recipe & Gratitude

Zoom Classes, College Care Packages, Pies, Private Chef Meals, Recipe & Gratitude

ZOOM COOKING CLASSES: How fun! I have really enjoyed working with individuals and groups near and far via Zoom. The classes are realistic and a great way to connect. We can cook anything, together! I have all kinds of tricks and tips and amazing recipes. We can go with a themed session (6 part series) or one offs.

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I am so busy with people, that i have little time to update this BLOG! But it is an intention of mine for 2019 to add BLOG posts regularly, add a recipe bank, attract corporate sponsors and partners, and GROW these two amazing companies that I love with all of my heart. I love them because of the people — and the fact that I get to cook and travel for both of them. This appeared last Sunday and I am so honored.

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I promise my content will be enhanced moving forward. I know you all want my recipes and I have listened to you. THANK YOU for always being the best clients in the world. Stay tuned…literally, we are developing a TV show, too (already on BNN as well - more to follow, YouTube, etc.)

Cheers - and stay warm in the cold spots!

Why I Created Culinary Adventures with Abby!

Culinary Adventures with Abby

A Little Division of Cooking with Abby

The reason I lead culinary adventures to Italy and France is simple - the journey to making them a reality, is longer. I want to share my love of Cooking, Eating, Breaking Bread, and truly, “Living” with all that come with me! Sharing fresh ingredients, cooking, wine tasting, art, and the gift of time with my clients, friends, and travellers, is the motivation behind the trips. I think one of the most important realizations I came to when Richard and I went with our girls and friends for 22 days to Italy in 2012, was that time together, savoring each meal, visiting ancient churches, searching for the perfect lemon (as an example), and then cooking and eating together, was life changing.  I call it a “soulful shift in my life’s direction”.   However, it still took some time to make these trips a reality.

Why was Italy 2012 life changing?  Life gets busy for all of us. For many of us, we have careers, may have children, organizations we work with, animals that need us to care for them, parents, siblings, and friends who need us too. Schedules… money...the list can go on and on as to why one cannot take the time to savor a trip to another country. When I stepped onto the plane at Logan Airport on July 4, 2012, I mentally said “OK” to leaving my store, my responsibilities to others (except my nuclear family), and my “schedule” on the tarmac in Boston. Once we took off, I decided I would immerse myself in the Italian Culture. I still had to check in with my staff as I was the boss, but I put someone in control and trusted that person to execute the duties that she had accepted. Letting go of my everyday universe was hard, but it allowed me some time to rethink my goals. Specifically, at the end of the trip, I knew deep down that I was going to shift my career to Food & Wine, and change the pace of my life. After 22 days in Italy, I realized I needed more time with those that I love and less time with people and groups and things that did not fill my soul with joy.   I also wanted to build something that would last; and create experiences that bring happiness, joy, and new things to other’s lives.

Not to gloss over the next 4-5 years, but in that time, I closed my retail store, went to culinary school, moved from the city to Norwell, MA, cultivated a huge garden with my husband, and settled our younger daughter into a new school.   Some of those decisions were painful and difficult. Closing our retail business, in a community that we adored and lived in, was seriously heartbreaking.  Deciding to sell our house and move from our beloved Charlestown, heartbreaking and very exciting at the same time. We needed and wanted more space for a garden – and we needed a change after closing the store.  Culinary School was a total “win” and an exciting and magical time for me. It was there that I decided I wanted to have my own cooking school, and to create adventures to places that are meaningful for food, wine, olive oil, artists and history.

One of the defining moments of my life came while I cooked alongside the famous Master Chef, Jacques Pépin. He talked of family, and food memories, and the joy of just picking up a spoon. I felt connected to everything he was saying. The long dinners around my family table growing up, the side food businesses, the intricate dinner parties, the happiness I felt and feel when I step into the kitchen, and the memories of so many times with my family and my friends. Roast Beef with Oven Roasted Potatoes, Haricots-Vert, and the perfect Claret; can bring me back to my childhood table with my family? Or maybe back to the perfect Christmas Dinner with my husband and our girls.  Other moments during the 22 days that changed my life include the day I met my dear friend, Lorena Autuori. She is a wonderful chef who taught us how to make pasta in her 16th century home. She is an even more wonderful friend.

In the small medieval village of San Gemini, Terni, Umbria, I met Lorena. Our group went there to take a cooking lesson with Lorena, and 8 or 9 hours later, we left to return to our Villa. The next day, she came to us for dinner. The rest is history!  Our families became dear friends. Both of us were destined to cook – and we were both stuck in different places. Lorena is a special education teacher by day –and an amazing Chef, cooking teacher, and restaurateur the rest of the time. We made things happen together– including collaborations with well-known chefs, her children working in the US, and my Culinary Adventures to Umbria. Her dedication to the ingredients, her honesty with her recipes, and her willingness to take hours to make one dish perfect, forever changed me as a chef, and inspired me to create trips that will hopefully inspire many to slow down and savor each and every moment.

During the summer of 2015, my family went out west to San Francisco, LA, and San Diego for six weeks. We were there for my husband’s business. I started to build out the culinary adventures mentally – wanting to include Northern California as a destination. During our adventure out west, we received a life changing phone call from my younger sisters, who were in Italy on a family trip. My stepmom had suffered an aneurysm, and the prognosis was not encouraging. We call JoAnn, Mimi. Mimi survived a very long surgery, and fell into a coma, that she would stay in for weeks. Upon my arrival home from the West Coast, I hopped on a plane to Florence, Italy, to meet my little sister in Siena, where Mimi was in the hospital.  For 7 or 8 days, it was just the two of us. We went to the hospital morning and night to talk to Mimi, hold her hand, put lotion on her face, and tell her stories in the hope she could hear us talking to her.  After our night visits, we made our way down to the Piazza del Campo where restaurants congregate, one after the other. There was much comfort in doing something “normal”. The warmth of the people, the beauty of each plate and the care put into every meal we ate, were very cathartic and helpful to us both.  We drank the delicious wine and faced the Duomo di Siena while we ate and talked – and the ancient building brought us a measure of comfort. It was there that I knew I would keep coming back to Italy – and that I wanted to add these adventures to my business. But what happened over the next 6 months is what prompted me to bring them to life and make them happen.

Mimi did eventually wake up, and she seemed to know us and love us and understand what we were saying. However, the aneurysm severely affected her mobility, her ability to eat by herself, and her ability to walk.  It became apparent over many months, and 24/7 caregiving at home, that our family could not physically take care of her day to day needs. Mimi transferred to a rehabilitation hospital, and then last May, to a nursing home in her beloved Washington, D.C. The facility is beautiful, and the staff is professional and kind. Yet every time I go to see her, I cannot help but think that her life was cut short. At 65, a vibrant, smart, dedicated mom, wife, and CEO of a company, will live out her life in a place she did not choose.  Every time I leave Mimi, I vow to do something more with my days. I vow to conquer fears, do things that scare me, and seek out moments of joy, love, collaboration, and growth.   During the same time period of Mimi’s transition to the rehab hospital and nursing home, one of my sisters gave birth to our niece. I think we all felt she was a gift to our family.  In the midst of devastating sadness and adjusting to a “new normal”, along comes our sweet baby girl, full of life and joy and excitement.  Baby Alex became our reason to move ahead with happiness. She also lights Mimi’s life up – as they clearly have a connection that cannot be dissolved by immobility or impossible circumstances.  “Show her how to live” is what always enters my mind when I am with sweet baby Alex (and our girls).

My Culinary Adventure trips are for this reason:  Life can change in an instant. We never do know what will happen. So…I seek out other chefs who love to teach, and can teach us something about their local cuisine. I seek out sommeliers and olive growers and farmers who know their crafts well – and speak to us in terms we understand, and can guide us in further appreciating the efforts of wine making and farming. I seek out farmers who can show us how cheese it made, and how they raise their animals. Their care speaks volume about their desires and efforts to be true to what they do.   The places we visit will change you – because the people are often from a long line of caretakers, farmers, growers and cheese makers. One sheep farm we visit to taste fresh ricotta cheese has been in the family for 500 years. The copper bowl they use in production is the original bowl from 500 years ago. When we visit Luca, the porchetta maker, we step into a shop that he restored. He uses an oven from 1699 that he also lovingly restored. When we cook with Lorena, we are cooking authentic recipes from Umbria. Every ingredient is hand picked and hand made.   This is the same with Daniela in Rome, and Letizia in Assisi, and Lorenzo in Orvieto. In Provence, France, we walk the local street markets, cook with local chefs, make chocolate with infamous chocolatiers, tour and taste some of the best wine (and beer!) the world has to offer us all. Lavender, honey, olives, linens, and soaps are just some of the market items. Eating at one of the world’s best restaurants, also located in Provence, occurs on our France Adventure.   Artists such as van Gogh, Renoir, Cezanne, Le Corbusier, Picasso, Matisse, and so many more influence our days as well.  Food and Art go hand in hand.

Whether you pick the Culinary Adventure to Italy or France, I personally guarantee that you will experience people, places and things that you never have imagined, even if you have been to these destinations before. My adventures are limited to 4-8 people, as I like the groups to enjoy the activities, savor the classes, taste the wine longer -- if one so desires J, and connect with others in our group. A smaller group also gives me the flexibility to add or change things on “on the fly” to make the most of the moments!

I hope to welcome you on A Culinary Adventure with Abby! Italy and France are only the beginning. However, I can imagine making the journey to my beloved Italy and Provence, France, every single year. I always tell my girls and clients, “with a little planning, and a lot of hustle, one can make anything happen”.  I work very diligently and find the right people to partner with on our adventures – and many become dear friends. I have worked hard to keep costs reasonable. There are less expensive tours out there –but they are not as inclusive or flexible. I am proud of my Adventures, and hope to travel with you, very soon.

About Chef Abby Gray:

Abby Gray is a Private Chef, Mother, Wife, Sister, Daughter, and Entrepreneur.  After many years in advertising and publishing, she opened a high-end gift boutique & events business in Charlestown, MA. This is where she further developed her “Cooking with Abby” business plan and “Culinary Adventures Ideas”. Always passionate about food, & feeding her family, friends, clients and strangers, Abby, at almost 50 years old, has settled into her perfect career.

Abby runs her cooking school out of her home in Norwell, MA. Contact Abby directly @: (617) 997-5822, or email Abby @: cookingwithabbygray@gmail.com

Abby is passionate about giving you a culinary adventure you will never forget. You can learn more about Abby via her website: cookingwithabby.com.

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